Archived posting to the Leica Users Group, 2015/07/02
[Author Prev] [Author Next] [Thread Prev] [Thread Next] [Author Index] [Topic Index] [Home] [Search]We got married with the attitude that Divorce Is Not an Option. You can Always work out the problem, and there will be problems. We are so grateful we have lived our lives this way. And grateful our daughter and grand daughters have also had this outlook toward marriage. gene ----- Original Message ----- From: "Tina Manley" <tmanley at gmail.com> To: "Leica Users Group" <lug at leica-users.org> Sent: Wednesday, July 1, 2015 4:37:37 PM Subject: Re: [Leica] Shameless wedding photography plug new website We come from the generation that did not throw things away and buy something new to replace the discards. If something broke, we fixed it. That goes for relationships, too. If we come through thick and thin, health and sickness, poverty and abundance, indulgence and abstinence, love and aggravation, devotion and isolation, and can still smile at each other and hug and know that no matter what happens we will be there for each other - that's a relationship that is worth saving no matter what you have to do. The marriage only gets stronger the more tribulations you go through together. Ted, I know that Irene is looking down at you and smiling and remembering the good times and the "chit-chats" just as you are treasuring every day you had together. I'm sorry that others don't have the experience of a life-long relationship, blessed by a marriage certificate or not. My heart aches for my daughter who has hardened her heart after being hurt too many times. I was lucky enough to find my soul mate when I was only 20. Tina And to bring this back on topic, if you have anybody in your family who is considering getting married any time in the future, Chris Williams would be the guy to contact!! On Wed, Jul 1, 2015 at 5:24 PM, Ted Grant <tedgrant at shaw.ca> wrote: > > On Tue, Jun 30, 2015 at 5:24 PM, Chris Crawford < > > chris at chriscrawfordphoto.com> wrote: > > > >All marriage is in todays world is an invitation to the > >state to interfere in your personal life. No more, no less. Most > >relationships don?t last. If its a marriage, then you have all the > >expense > >of going to court, then having the state possibly steal much of your > >property and future earnings to give to the other person. If you were > >smart enough to keep the state out of your relationship (by not > >marrying), > >then you can just walk away. Being married does NOT discourage people > >from throwing away their relationships; most today end in divorce.<<<<<< > ========================================================= > > I say Chris, ..................... > So sorry to say this. But it appears you have a very sad looking view of > life? I don't believe I have any friends who have such a miserable outlook? > Certainly regarding marriage? > > Most are married a number of years from in their numbers of 15 years to > fifty. Yep some have had their battles so to speak. But those who truly > love their mates sort out their disagreements and move along until some > stupid little thing triggers another minor "barking at each other." > > But a divorce???? Never! Talk and work it out! Dang it's so simple > really! BUT GETTING LAWYERS AND WASTING MONEY??? AND OR DESTRYING YOUR > FUTURE LIVES? Maybe for many of the Hollywood types or lack lustre humans > beginning to propagate planet Earth with their gimme gimmee attitudes where > neither wishes to give an inch or a "BIG HUG AND SAY I'M SORRY!" NOPE OFF > TO THE LAWYER! Sad indeed! > > Hopefully me old son you'll live life on another day feeling much better. > God Bless! > > cheers, > Dr.ted > > > > > --- > This email has been checked for viruses by Avast antivirus software. > https://www.avast.com/antivirus > > > _______________________________________________ > Leica Users Group. > See http://leica-users.org/mailman/listinfo/lug for more information > -- Tina Manley www.tinamanley.com tina-manley.artistwebsites.com http://www.alamy.com/stock-photography/3B49552F-90A0-4D0A-A11D-2175C937AA91/Tina+Manley.html _______________________________________________ Leica Users Group. See http://leica-users.org/mailman/listinfo/lug for more information