Archived posting to the Leica Users Group, 2003/07/17
[Author Prev] [Author Next] [Thread Prev] [Thread Next] [Author Index] [Topic Index] [Home] [Search]This past weekend we had another wedding in the family. This one was very unusual for us as it was an orthodox service. Some background: before the actual ceremony the men gather in one room with the groom (for a "tish") and the women gather in another with the bride (for a "bodekin"). At the tish, the men get drunk on straight shots and try to distract the groom from giving a religious teaching (from the torah). http://www.leica-gallery.net/rgacpa/image-49265.html The groom then signs the marriage contract. http://www.leica-gallery.net/rgacpa/image-49264.html Then the groom goes with the men to the bedikin and lifts the veil of the bride to make sure it's the right bride. They then make their way to the chupa (a tent like structure with no sides) which represents their first home. http://www.leica-gallery.net/rgacpa/image-49262.html The bride comes down and circles the groom 7 times (representing the 7 days of creation). http://www.leica-gallery.net/rgacpa/image-49263.html Then seven prayers are spoken, a ring placed on the bride's finger, http://www.leica-gallery.net/rgacpa/image-49266.html and a glass broken. http://www.leica-gallery.net/rgacpa/image-49261.html The broken glass symbolizes many things; for one, that all should remember at this moment of greatest joy there are still things broken in the world that we must not forget, for another that after this moment things will never be the same just as a broken dish is never the same. After the ceremony there is much dancing, celebrating and general mayhem...for hours! Though this was my nephews wedding, none in our family had ever attended such a ceremony (he's become orthodox all on his own in Berkeley...where else :-) We didn't know quite what to expect, but were happy to be there. At any rate, here are my out of focus attempts to capture some of the mood. Techy stuff: M7, 35,2 Fuji NPS Thanks for looking. Any suggestions alway appreciated. Bob ===== Bob Adler Palo Alto, CA rgacpa@pacbell.net - -- To unsubscribe, see http://mejac.palo-alto.ca.us/leica-users/unsub.html