Archived posting to the Leica Users Group, 2000/03/22
[Author Prev] [Author Next] [Thread Prev] [Thread Next] [Author Index] [Topic Index] [Home] [Search]Ken Iisaka wrote: > > >You do notice that there were no shots of the moment of birth. There > >was no way I could taken any photographs then, as my wife was holding > >onto me so tightly.>>>>>>>>>> Paul Chefurka responded: > I was wondering about that very thing! Given the later photos, I guess she > didn't snap your shutter finger - I've heard a lot about the "This is all > your fault" grip that birthing mothers can exert :-)>>>>>>>>>>>> From the old guy who was told to "go home, we'll call you when it's all over" times of birthing. "You want to what? Be there when it's happening? Go home young man, you've done your thing. Now leave the rest to us!" quote medical practitioner upon me delivering my wife to hospital for first birthing 1953! Then following 2nd, 3rd and fourth! It were different times folks! And about that grip they have when they want to deliver the...."it's all your fault" message? Given the number of birthings I've shot over the years, let me attest to guys crying because she's got a hold of him and near breaking his....what's it.... to deliver her, " I'm suffering, you suffer with me" message! Not a pretty Leica picture. :) They can be "mean mother's to be" in making up for your few moments of heavy breathing! :) So I guess the older guys here who were never allowed in for their child birthing can feel lucky they never experienced the ... " Your paying for this grip!" :) However, I always tell young guys "be there, not only for the support to your wife, but to experience this small miracle of life that wasn't there a few minutes ago and now here's this wonderful brand new human being!" It's an incredible moment! A wonderful experience each time I attend a birthing with my Leicas capturing the moments, maybe hours of moments. It's definitely a tough call for the "father to be to also shoot the event." Simply because he's also part of the event and has things to do in support of his wife that eliminates the picture taking. I mean, he is part of the subject to be captured and you can't be in your own pictures and give TLC at the same time. Call me! Been there, done that many many times, it's almost old hat. I say, "almost old hat" as I still get all emotional when the little critter arrives. :) ted