Archived posting to the Leica Users Group, 2002/02/07
[Author Prev] [Author Next] [Thread Prev] [Thread Next] [Author Index] [Topic Index] [Home] [Search]Oh, I agree they are different.......but just the hearing her pummel her interviewees with question after question, and trying not to get sidetracked has been a great lesson for me her HEAR. It's one thing to read it in a book, another to 'see it in action'...so to speak. And........her interview on Monday with Gene Simmons of KISS was ghastly. It sucked. He was the worst interviewee I've EVER heard anywhere. If you listened, you know what I mean. And she still managed to pull it off with some semblance of decorum. Typically her shows are available on-line but he didn't allow his to be posted. Smart decision on his part, I believe. Anyway, I do know it is faaaaar easier for me to sit and visit with a total stranger than to walk up to one and ask for them to allow me to photograph them. Lea - ----- Original Message ----- From: "B. D. Colen" <bdcolen@earthlink.net> To: <leica-users@mejac.palo-alto.ca.us> Sent: Thursday, February 07, 2002 8:46 AM Subject: RE: [Leica] interacting with strangers -- a very important element of photography : Terry Gross is a fabulous radio interviewer. But I the personality/skills : involved in that kind of interviewing and sticking a camera in the faces of : strangers are quite different. Keep in mind that not only are the guests on : Fresh Air happy to be there, they would KILL to be there - they have a : "product" to sell, and Terry is helping them sell it. They WANT to be : talking to her. : : OTH, when you are out wandering the street, the folks you shoot don't know : you, don't know what you're doing, are leading their private lives into : which you inject yourself without invitation. It's a VERY different : situation. It may require some of the same curiosty/chutspa on the part of a : Terry Gross and a photographer. But the skills are different. And I know : that from experience, having spent 23 years regularly interviewing people in : all sort of situations, and having no qualms about doing it - but at the : same time finding that I am NOT an intrepid street shooter at all.. : : B. D. : : -----Original Message----- : From: owner-leica-users@mejac.palo-alto.ca.us : [mailto:owner-leica-users@mejac.palo-alto.ca.us]On Behalf Of lea : Sent: Thursday, February 07, 2002 9:38 AM : To: leica-users@mejac.palo-alto.ca.us : Subject: Re: [Leica] interacting with strangers -- a very important : element of photography : : : Along the same lines, I've found myself entranced by how Terry Gross on : Fresh Air (NPR) manages to make conversation with her guests, delving, : delving, delving and I have to say I've learned quite a lot about conversing : by listening to her. She has the ability of not being 'wowed' by a response : and just keeps asking questions. A good lesson...for me anyway. : : Lea : : ----- Original Message ----- : From: "Nathan Wajsman" <wajsman@webshuttle.ch> : To: <leica-users@mejac.palo-alto.ca.us> : Sent: Thursday, February 07, 2002 12:18 AM : Subject: Re: [Leica] interacting with strangers -- a very important element : of photography : : : : Just wanted to send a belated thanks to Kyle for recommending this book. I : : bought it from Amazon and find its recommendations extremely useful. As : Kyle : : writes, its primarily aim is business, but since I was laid off in : December and : : am currently looking around, the schmoozing techniques contained in this : book : : are very useful to me right now from both points of view. : : : : Highly recommended. : : : : Nathan : : : : kyle cassidy wrote: : : : : > i recommend reading "the vault guide to schmoozing" -- which is about : $14 : : > from amazon. it's basically a book about how to strike up conversations : with : : > strangers, largely written for business people, but it all carries over : into : : > photography. one great suggestion it gives is to always have a followup : : > question. you start with "do you come here often" they say "yes" and : unless : : > you're prepared, the conversation dies there. so you ask "i've never : heard : : > of any of these beers before, do you know anything about them?" and your : : > off. : : : : -- : : Nathan Wajsman : : Herrliberg (ZH), Switzerland : : : : e-mail: wajsman@webshuttle.ch : : : : Photo-A-Week: http://www.wajsman.com/indexpaw2002.htm : : General photo site: http://www.wajsman.com/index.htm : : : : : : -- : : To unsubscribe, see http://mejac.palo-alto.ca.us/leica-users/unsub.html : : : : -- : To unsubscribe, see http://mejac.palo-alto.ca.us/leica-users/unsub.html : : -- : To unsubscribe, see http://mejac.palo-alto.ca.us/leica-users/unsub.html : - -- To unsubscribe, see http://mejac.palo-alto.ca.us/leica-users/unsub.html