Archived posting to the Leica Users Group, 2013/07/03
[Author Prev] [Author Next] [Thread Prev] [Thread Next] [Author Index] [Topic Index] [Home] [Search]Phil, Let me give you an example of how cultural differences work - it is all in the mind, and steeped in ignorance of other cultures. There was a huge shindig a few days ago on the statement that a husband bought an expensive piece of kit for his wife, it was considered sexist. In India, it would be taken as a compliment, that a husband buys something really expensive for his wife (it normally would be jewelry, but a Leica is close enough! LOL). There are no "your accounts" and "my accounts" in our marriages, irrespective of who earns what, it is always OUR account - every asset in our family is jointly held. We assume that marriages are going to last, not take defensive precautions for a divorce that might happen. Anything else sounds ludicrous to me, but that is the difference in cultures...Live and let live! By the way, if appreciating attractive members of either sex is considered sexist, the world is a sad place. After all, it is what we are genetically wired for! Cheers Jayanand On Thu, Jul 4, 2013 at 5:00 AM, Phil Swango <pswango at att.net> wrote: > I've been following the "senorita" thread with considerable interest, > weighing the arguments on both sides. Like Larry and Steve, I've always > had a problem with the term as used here on the LUG, but when I've asked > myself why I have a hard time coming up with a rational answer. Probably > we'll never all agree on the point, cultural differences being what they > are. Going to the dictionary doesn't help because the dictionary is deaf > to social context. It's good be reminded that whatever you speak or write > may carry different associations for the hearer/reader than it does for > you. > > -- > Phil Swango > 307 Aliso Dr SE > Albuquerque, NM 87108 > 505-262-4085 > > _______________________________________________ > Leica Users Group. > See http://leica-users.org/mailman/listinfo/lug for more information >